How can you??? Things to think about.

What do you when you have lived most of your life with limited family contact?

When you’re in need of family support and no one is there how do you handle that?

How do you feel when you are in a comfortable position without the help of family?

What do you when you are unable to fight for yourself and family finally decides to show up and now they know what is best for you?

How can they speak for you and they barely know you?

How can you send someone to live in a lonely place by themselves for the rest of their days?

How can you live with yourself knowing you never knew that family member at all?

Please get to know your family members before making a final decision for them.

By Pain Bug


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Pain Bug

I am 30+ year old married with 6 children. They are all grown except one and she reminds us every day she is the baby. We love to travel. I am a spontaneous spur of the moment person. I created this blog as an outlet to express my emotions. We all need an outlet to help us cope with chronic pain and mental health.

5 thoughts on “How can you??? Things to think about.”

  1. I can honestly say that my family has not really been there for me much. Both my mother and father’s side have been kind of absent. The only person in my family that ever really cared was my Grandfather. He was the best man ever, the world has not been the same since he past. I have been battling Multiple Sclerosis for 16 years and have had ups and downs. I started my blog about 3 months ago and it was the best decision I have ever made! It has been so therapeutic, I hope it helps you as well! I look forward to reading more of your posts!
    I hope you are doing well today! Take Care!

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    1. So far so this morning. I have been a lone most of my life until i meet my husband. I really started writting this month and do have to it therapeutic as well. I was scared for the last three about doing this but eventually had to overcome my fear.

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      1. I was terrified about writing a blog at first, but everyone is so understanding and kind! There are no judgments or negativity, which is great! For the most part, my husband has been my rock in life. My mother was a hot mess during childhood and my father just was not there. I am glad your blog has severed to be good therapy! If there is ever anything I can do for you, please do not hesitate to ask!! You can email any time as well if you need to vent!!! I hope that if you choose to follow my blog it is helpful to you!! Take Care!!!

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